Saturday, February 23, 2008

8 Weeks: You'd Cry Too

You'd cry too if your dad kissed you with his stubbly face. Poor kid.

Great photo by Mary:



Eight weeks old today.

Friday, February 22, 2008

7 Weeks: The Nap & Nibble

Photos of August at his favorite eatery... the Nap & Nibble. It's a breastfeeding pillow (the Brest Friend... highly recommended) which, in Augs' case, also serves as a convenient platform for an extended siesta. August spends the better part of his day making the quick and graceful transition between eating & sleeping (and sometimes fussing). Not a bad life!



7 Weeks: Child Gone Batty

Milestone tonight. And a possible discovery.

Milestone:
I read in our week-by-week infant development book that August should soon begin looking at, and using, his hands. Of course, since reading this I've been dangling toys over him, picking up his arms and making them touch the toys, putting his own hands in front of his face... everything I can think of to accelerate the process.

Finally, tonight, I was dangling his favorite wooden caterpillar toy over him so he could stare at it, and I thought maybe he was trying to grab at it. Then, pretty soon he was batting at it, grabbing on to it, really going nuts.

Discovery:
So now he bats at stuff in front of his face (and so would I, really). And based on his behavior both tonight and previously, and on some research I've done, I think August might be left handed.

I've actually suspected this for some time, based on the fact that he seems more active with his left hand, more purposeful. But tonight, he would only bat at the caterpillar toy with his left hand. And I read an abstract from a widely cited 1981 scholarly paper, Right-handedness: a consequence of infant supine head-orientation preference?, by GF Michel. The basic gist is that most babies prefer to lie with their heads turned toward the right. A small percentage prefer to lie with their heads turned to left, and that group is much more prone to develop left-handedness later. For a long time I've noticed August prefers to turn his head to the left. I mentioned this to Mary earlier today, before I realized it was an indicator of anything, or even studied in any way. I thought it was just something he did... maybe even and indication that something wasn't right (get it?? wasn't right??).

I'm surprised handedness is "developed", rather than innate. Apparently there's no genetic marker. In most of the academic research I saw, left-handedness is treated as some sort of defect (correlated to poor academic performance, to crisis/stress as a newborn, to schizophrenia), but I've always found lefties to be more creative, individualistic, artistic. I guess we've got a long way to go before we learn whether he is or isn't left handed, but if you gave me 6:1 odds on a condition that should be a 1 in 9 shot... today I'd take that bet!

Wednesday, February 20, 2008

7 Weeks: On a Walk

A few days ago the whole family went for a walk, with me carrying August in our front-pack contraption. Mary shot a quick video clip:

Monday, February 18, 2008

7 Weeks: Photos





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Friday, February 15, 2008

6 Weeks: He's Always Watching

August spends a lot of time staring at me, very intently, watching my mouth, watching my eyes, checking everything out. As I've mentioned before, he seems to be experimenting with imitating me. It struck me suddenly that he will always be watching, if not always quite so obviously, and like it or not, will probably always emulate me to some degree... even if he denies it or tries not to!

Gives me pause to know that I'm being scrutinized so closely, and will continue to be for the rest of my life.

6 Weeks: Smiles Video

Gratuitous baby-smiling video footage from Wednesday night: